Grandad was a tough old chap. A man of few words. Grumpy. Grandad always gave the impression that he knew everything about the world, but didn’t want to talk about it. He’d say things like: ‘Hmm … yeah.’ or ‘Hmm … nah.’ And he’d tell his crying grandson, sitting on the ground in the garden next to the swing: “Stop whingeing. What doesn’t kill you just makes you tougher.” That’s not really the done thing these days. But yes, that was just Grandad for you.
In his 2012 book Antifragility, Nassim Nicholas Taleb introduced a distinction that goes beyond simple resilience. There are fragile systems that are damaged by stress. There are robust systems that survive stress unscathed. And there are antifragile systems that improve as a result of stress. He uses the Hydra from Greek mythology as an illustration: if you cut off one of its heads, two new ones grow in its place. A muscle grows under strain; a bone becomes denser under pressure. And only in this way, Taleb argues, can an idea become stronger if it incorporates its own flaws into the next version. From a philosophical perspective, Taleb thus approaches a realisation that Grandad imparted to his crying grandson with his down-to-earth remark: what gets you down doesn’t necessarily have to weaken you; it can also be the start of an improvement.